The rape experience at the age of 15 messed up my sex life –Padita Agu

Actress , Padita Agu , stunned her fans when she recently revealed that she was raped at the age of 15.

Speaking on her YouTube Channel , the actress who has found a new passion in vlogging , recounted how armed robbers assaulted her .

She said , “ I was raped at 15 .

We were attacked by armed robbers in the house and I got raped.

That was my first experience and it was horrible .

I had no therapy. Nobody talked to me or talked me through it .

I just lived with it and dealt with it myself .

I didn’ t know how to deal with. I just carried on with life from that point .

My sex life was messed up until I got married .

Before I got married , I told my would – be husband the challenge I had.

He said there was no problem and he would walk me through it . ”

On how she was able to overcome her aversion for sex , Agu said , “ When we got married , my then- husband just got me a book to read and figure myself out. It was a big issue for me .

I got frustrated at some point because he was always not happy about it , too .

I was depressed for most times because of this .

I didn’ t know what to do .

I tried practising what I read in the book I was given but it was not working .

“ So one day, out of frustration , I reached out to a woman who sold food items not too far from where I lived back then.

I started telling her my frustrations with sex.

She told me she was once like that before and told me the simple things she did .

She told me that whenever she was having sex, she would begin to moan and give the husband the impression that she was enjoying it .

Whatever he does to her , she would heighten it .

At the beginning, she was just acting it up but after a while , she realised that she was beginning to feel the things she was acting .

“ What I picked from that was that words are powerful .

When she started saying those words , she didn’ t mean them ; she was just saying those things for him to enjoy it .

Later, her words became her reality and she started enjoying sex.

I learnt from her and began to put into practice what she said .

At first , it didn ’ t look like it was working but I kept on doing it and the story is different today , ” she said .

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